          | MY THOUGHTS ABOUT MUSIC - as an aid to my counselling
Music
has been an integral part of healing, dating back to ancient times and
recently, research indicates physiological and psychological benefits
to music therapy. These benefits include reductions in blood pressure,
heart rate, respiratory rate, pain and anxiety, along with increases in
tolerance levels for patients suffering from acute and chronic pain,
therefore can be seen as an holistic therapy for all ages.
These are some quotes which I found and feel they are fitting to the use of music and counselling:
“There is always music amongst the trees in the garden, but our hearts must be very quiet to hear it.” M. Aumonier
“Words
make you think a thought. Music makes you feel a feeling. A song makes
you feel a thought.” E.Y. Harburg (Edgar Yipsel) (1898 - 1981)
“Music melts all the separate parts of our bodies together.” Anais Nin
“Music
creates order out of chaos: for rhythm imposes unanimity upon the
divergent, melody imposes continuity upon the disjointed, and harmony
imposes compatibility upon the incongruous.” Yehudi Menuhin
“It
is only by introducing the young to great literature, drama and music,
and to the excitement of great science that we open to them the
possibilities that lie within the human spirit -- enable them to see
visions and dream dreams.” Eric Anderson
“Music expresses that which cannot be put into words and that which cannot remain silent.” Victor Hugo
“Where words fail, music speaks.” Hans Christian Andersen (1805-1875) Danish short-story writer, poet
“Music was my refuge. I could crawl into the space between the notes and curl my back to loneliness.” Maya Angelou
“It
had never occurred to me before that music and thinking are so much
alike. In fact you could say music is another way of thinking, or maybe
thinking is another kind of music.” Ursula K. Le Guin
“In music one must think with the heart and feel with the brain.” George Szell
“If music be the food of love; play on.........” William Shakespeare
Maybe you know of some other fitting quotes?
My
personal experience of music is when I was pregnant I used to put
earphones over ‘my bump’ and play classical music to my unborn baby
relaxing us both. When he was a tiny baby I continued to play a baby
tape of ‘mother music’ which contained noises from inside the mother to
settle him. As he grew I used to play music rather than switch on the
TV at bath time and bedtime, depicting playtime is now over and it is
time to settle. As a young adult now, he loves music and is a relaxed,
placid, cool dude! Coincidence? - maybe, yet I am not a believer of
coincidences!
I have a box of musical instruments which I take
into schools for the children to play - much to the delight of the
office staff! Children love to beat drums and will generally ‘bang’ on
anything to get a noise - it is instinctive. For my clients, it is a
way to help raise self esteem and awareness to parts of themselves they
had not known about before. Just by repeating their name to a drum beat
can be empowering.
Drumming connects with the heart beat
naturally, so automatically people can feel connected emotionally,
spiritually, physically and mentally. Drumming courses are run for all
kinds of reasons, for example team building events, raising self
esteem, aiding healing and promoting health, helping mobility, making
contact with self and others through dance and movement - and just
because people like it! All ages in a community can participate, from
children to the older generation, by contacting their natural sense of
rhythm. It has been seen to considerably aid the work with children and
adults with autism, where it can help release emotions and conflict, as
well as being a form of communication where words are not easily
accessible.
Other instruments and their sounds can contact our
hearts and souls, the parts of us where we feel deep emotions or at a
higher level of consciousness, for example with bells. We can make
music from anything around us. Making shakers with rice or dried beans
in covered paper or plastic cups; wooden spoons on saucepans; shells
from the beach in a container or netting; bells in a bag; spoons - the
list is as long as your imagination.
Enjoy making your music.
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